In a breakup the opposite sex is always to blame. Its either she was a bitch or he was a jerk, but who is really to blame?
I previously got out of, and I say got out of but should say escaped, a relationship of two months that moved along far to quickly than it should have. Now I'm not saying I did everything right, because I did many wrongs, but I like to think my part of this relationship was more structured than his.
The first few weeks flew by, I never really wanted the relationship in the first place, so they flew by in a bad way. I remember calling my friends and asking them for excuses for me not to go but they told me I needed to get out there and live a little. Unaware at the time "living a little" would not be a fun experience. I described our relation ship as a year packed into two months. It seemed all he wanted to do was move along quickly, which is not something I favored being I am currently going into my senior year of high school. He frequently talked about having children in the near future and settling down, something I would need more time for. The worst part about being in a relationship with him was when I disagreed to his proposal he got furious, not the sort of guy you can see fathering your children. During his mad fits he would say things that implied I would or was cheating on him. Once he used the line, "go talk to other guys," which I would never do. See he was a very insecure man, boy is probably more appropriate, his past girlfriend of two and a half years cheated on him. He found this preposterous as if no one wouldn't want him forever, but I definitely could see why she did it although I wouldn't have taken the same action.
I only split up with him last Saturday night and today is Thursday, first though we were on break since the Thursday before that. I was actually going to give him another chance until I went to check if he had a profile on this site called meet me, on which we met. Not only did he still have an account but he also had added a picture just three days earlier. When I questioned him on the matter he said he posted it to show off his tattoo to guys. This is in fact complete bullshit, the site was meant for meeting future interests, yet he still claimed he was posting it to the guys and compared the page to Facebook. In my furious rage I drove to his house, yelled a lot, then left thus ending our relationship.
Now I'm not going to actually pursue anyone on these websites again, but that doesn't mean I cant look. So I made a new profile, I deactivated my old one, and then I made an account on another free online dating website. It turns out that he had lied when he said he deactivated his account and plus he had a profile on the other website as well. My friend also told me he checked out her profile not even a day after we broke up. What a sleaze.
My point is I am glad the relationship is over, and I hope no other girl has to be put through basically being called a whore and all that jazz.